The holidays are a busy time for everyone! With family gatherings and festive events filling our schedules, it’s easy to get caught up in the excitement. However, amidst the celebrations, it’s important to take a moment to observe how your aging parents are doing. This time of year provides a unique opportunity to check in on their well-being and see if they might need some extra help. Here’s what to look for:

1. Home:

• Maintenance and Cleanliness: Is their home tidy and well-maintained? Are there signs of neglect, such as an unkempt yard or unfinished repairs?
• Meal Preparation: Are they eating healthy meals regularly? Is their refrigerator stocked with fresh food, or are there expired items that indicate they might be struggling with cooking?
• Personal Care: Observe their personal hygiene habits and appearance. Are they bathing, dressing, and taking care of themselves appropriately?

2. Daily Life:

• Mobility and Movement: How easily are they moving around the house? Are they having any difficulty with stairs, getting in and out of chairs, or walking?
• Medication Management: Are they managing their medications correctly? Are their medications organized, or are there signs they might be missing doses or having trouble keeping track of them?
• Cognitive Skills: Are they engaged in conversations, remembering appointments, and managing their finances without any problems? Are there any signs of confusion or memory difficulties?

3. Social and Emotional Well-being:

• Social Interaction: Are they actively engaging in conversations and participating in family activities? Or do they seem more withdrawn than usual?
• Mood and Behavior: Pay attention to any changes in their mood. Are they generally happy and content, or do they seem more sad, anxious, or irritable?
• Hobbies and Interests: Are they still pursuing hobbies and activities they enjoy?

4. Safety:

• Driving: If they’re still driving, observe their driving habits. Are they confident and safe behind the wheel?
• Falls: Have they had any recent falls or near falls? Are they steady on their feet, or do they seem unsteady or have trouble with their balance?
• Home Hazards: Are there any potential hazards in their home, such as clutter, poor lighting, or slippery floors, that could increase their risk of falls or accidents?

What to Do Next:

The holidays are a joyful time, but they can also reveal subtle signs that our aging parents may need additional support. By being observant and proactive, you can help ensure they receive the care they need to live fulfilling lives.

If you have any questions about senior living options or how to best support your aging parents, please don’t hesitate to reach out to us. We’re here to help.